Safety & trust
Look for a partner, safely
Most members here are genuine. These simple habits keep the rest from wasting your time or your money.
Please do
- ✓ Take your time. Genuine people are patient, and anyone rushing you is a warning sign.
- ✓ Tell your family who you are talking to, and involve them early.
- ✓ Meet the first few times in a public place, and let someone know where you are going.
- ✓ Verify what you are told, such as workplace, education and city, before things become serious.
- ✓ Use the platform for early conversations so we can help if something goes wrong.
Please don't
- ✕ Never send money, gift cards or bank details to anyone, for any reason.
- ✕ Do not share OTPs, passwords, Aadhaar or PAN details with a member.
- ✕ Do not move to a private chat app before you are comfortable.
- ✕ Avoid sharing your home address or workplace address early on.
- ✕ Do not accept requests to invest, buy crypto or "help with customs charges".
Warning signs to watch for
▲ Asking for money
Any request for money, however small or urgent it sounds, is a scam. Report it immediately.
▲ Refusing to video call
Someone who always has an excuse not to show their face may not be who they claim to be.
▲ Rushing to marry
Pressure to commit within days, before families have met, is not normal.
▲ Inconsistent details
Job, city or family details that change between conversations are worth questioning.
What we do on our side
- Every profile is screened, and photos are reviewed before they appear in search.
- Members can request document verification for a badge other members can trust.
- Contact details stay hidden until an interest is accepted, so you decide who sees them.
- Reports go straight to a moderator, and confirmed offenders are removed permanently.
- You can block any member instantly from their profile.